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    are you a giver or a taker?

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    In your romantic relationships, is there give and take? Do you hand out all you have or suck the life out of your partner? Unhealthy patterns of giving and taking can lead to codependency or passive aggressive behavior. Find out if there is a healthy balance in your relationship with the Giver/Taker Test.

    Take this test to determine the role in which you generally find yourself in your current relationship. Since the role you play can differ depending on whom you are interacting with, respond with your current or most recent relationship in mind. Suggestion: Compare your score with that of your current partner to see what your relationship's balance is.

    Fill in the questionnaire, responding as you truthfully would in such situations. If you have never been in one or more of the situations, respond as you most likely would. After finishing the Giver/Taker Test, you will receive a detailed, personalized interpretation of your score that includes diagrams, information on the test topic and tips.

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    Your score = 66






    What does your score mean?
    You typify a mélange of give and take in your relationship. You do not give indiscriminately nor do you make unwarranted demands of your partner. Your position may be referred to as that of the sharer. You are more likely to go with the flow using this style, giving when you feel you have something to offer, and taking when you see that your partner is in a position to offer you something of value. You seem to be comfortable with yourself and are able recognize your own needs and desires as well as those of your partner.

    If your partner is also a sharer, your relationship is likely to be a healthy one, at least from this point of view.

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    I scored a 78, but can't find where it says what that means.
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    What does your score mean?

    You typify a mélange of give and take in your relationship. You do not give indiscriminately nor do you make unwarranted demands of your partner. Your position may be referred to as that of the sharer. You are more likely to go with the flow using this style, giving when you feel you have something to offer, and taking when you see that your partner is in a position to offer you something of value. You seem to be comfortable with yourself and are able recognize your own needs and desires as well as those of your partner.

    If your partner is also a sharer, your relationship is likely to be a healthy one, at least from this point of view.




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    What does your score mean?

    You typify a mélange of give and take in your relationship. You do not give indiscriminately nor do you make unwarranted demands of your partner. Your position may be referred to as that of the sharer. You are more likely to go with the flow using this style, giving when you feel you have something to offer, and taking when you see that your partner is in a position to offer you something of value. You seem to be comfortable with yourself and are able recognize your own needs and desires as well as those of your partner.

    If your partner is also a sharer, your relationship is likely to be a healthy one, at least from this point of view.
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    Okay, I took the quiz again to see if it would give me the explanation this time, and here is what it said:

    "It appears that you give to your own detriment. You put all your effort into giving to your partner, leaving very little energy for yourself. This extreme is unhealthy. Be careful; try to think about yourself as much as you think about your partner. There is nothing wrong with being a giver but be fair in your generosity and don't neglect yourself!"


    LOL! When Papa Smurf is happy, he makes sure I'm happy, too. No worries here!
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    I'm such a giver, LOL...
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    What does your score mean?
    You typify a mélange of give and take in your relationship. You do not give indiscriminately nor do you make unwarranted demands of your partner. Your position may be referred to as that of the sharer. You are more likely to go with the flow using this style, giving when you feel you have something to offer, and taking when you see that your partner is in a position to offer you something of value. You seem to be comfortable with yourself and are able recognize your own needs and desires as well as those of your partner.

    If your partner is also a sharer, your relationship is likely to be a healthy one, at least from this point of view.
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    He is training with minimum food or water, in austere conditions, day and night.
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