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    Unhappy Lost my Best Friend.

    First off, I want to thank you for the birthday wishes. They were welcome but bitter-sweet.

    As you all know my wife developed cancer in Nov 2012. In Feb 2013 it had cleared up and she was on the road to recovery, Some time in March she started having headaches and as a result Brain Cancer. She fought hard but couldn't beat it and she passed away in the evening (8:15) of Dec 25. We usually Christmas on Christmas Eve, and all our kids, grand kids, great grand kids were here and she seemed to it. She was buried Tuesday in the Fort Jackson National Cemetery.

    We would have been married 56 years on Jan 23d. It is hard to write this, but I have to get it over with and continue on with my life.

    Every night ,tell your loved ones that you love them because you may not be able to do so in the morning. And also, a belated Happy New Year to you all.

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    Very sorry to hear of your loss.
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    I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.

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    Positive thoughts and energy for you, family, and friends.
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    And always add bacon! - Shad Kirton, Co-owner/Chef Smokey D's

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    Better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt. - Solomon

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    So sorry for your loss, prayers for you and your family.
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    Words seem so weak at a time like this.... Just know that you are in the thoughts and hearts of many and may God grant you peace.
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    So very sorry for your loss.

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    That which does not kill me, better start fucking running.

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    My condolences.

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    I am so very sorry to hear this. I cannot imagine the anguish.


    You speak of moving on, but it has only been a few days. Don't rush it just because it is the inevitable end.
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    I am sorry for your lost. I must also say though that you were blessed to have her in your life for so long. Very few have that chance anymore.
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    Brother, I am sorry for your loss. I can only offer prayers.
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    So very sorry to hear of this.
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    I'm deeply sadden to hear of your loss. Prayers for her and you.
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    Bayern, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. May she rest in peace, you and your family are in my prayers.




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    Bayern, if you need anything, let me know.
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    Your are in our prayers. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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    So sorry for your loss.I lost my first wife after only 29 years,I cant imagine the pain you feel after over 50.

 

 

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