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10-19-06, 11:38 PM #1BEEN THERE BUT NOT EVERYWHERE
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By his own hand
On wednesday night i saw my partner of eight years dead in his car. He retired last year. Throughout my career,this is the 7th NYPD officer that i knew personally that ended thier lives. This one really hit me hard, I cant stop the tears. He was very depressed over a divorce he was going through as well as other problems he was facing.He was such a great guy, always helpful and always joking around. I spoke to him very often during the past 7 months while he was going through this ordeal whether it was at 3pm or 3am i always answered my phone when i knew it was him..Getting him help didnt seen to work, although he did try. I will never forget what i saw that night. I have much more to say about this incident but am to upset to go on tonight....Please say a prayer for him and his kids
R.I.P my friend.....
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10-19-06, 11:43 PM #2
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10-20-06, 12:30 AM #31*girl Guest
I am so sorry! Y'all are all in my prayers!
10-20-06, 01:14 AM #4
Ghost, PM me if you want to talk. Hugs man.\\` ` ` ` < ` )___/\
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10-20-06, 01:43 AM #5
Sorry to hear about this....RIP.Calm Like A Bomb...
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10-20-06, 02:13 AM #6
I am sorry to hear this too. My thoughts and prayers also enroute. I know you don't know me that well, but just know that I'm always here if you need me.Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.
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10-20-06, 02:46 AM #7
Oh my gosh how awful I am so sorry he left in this manner. May time heal your sorrow......and give strength to his children he left behind.**********************
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10-20-06, 07:30 AM #8Rookie
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My deepest sympathies to you and your loss. I hope his pain has been taken away.
10-20-06, 09:26 AM #9
I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're in my thoughts.
(((((hugs to you)))))
10-20-06, 09:54 AM #10
Thoughts and prayers are en route.
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10-20-06, 10:38 AM #11
Ghost.....You and your partner are in my prayers.
10-20-06, 11:21 AM #12
You and your partner are in my thoughts and prayers.
10-20-06, 01:28 PM #13
You, his family, and the whole Dept. are in my thoughts and prayers Brother."An Unarmed man can only flee from evil, and evil is not overcome by fleeing from it." Jeff Cooper
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10-20-06, 01:34 PM #14
I am deeply saddened to hear this, ghost! Please know that you're not alone - you have many friends here, and we're only a PM or phone call away! Thoughts and prayers are en route!
10-20-06, 02:58 PM #15
Sorry for your loss.
10-20-06, 02:59 PM #16
I am really sorry to read about your friend, ghost. I am so sorry that your partner didn't seek professional help. Prayers go out to you and his family and all of the NYPD.The strongest reason for the people to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against the tyranny of government.
That is why our masters in Washington are so anxious to disarm us. They are not afraid of criminals. They are afraid of a populace which cannot be subdued by tyrants.” – Jeff Cooper'
10-20-06, 03:06 PM #17
Thoughts and prayers are with you.
As John Taylor said "While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil."In memory of Carlos Borland.
Trooper Borland was shot and killed when he stopped a car on I-80, just outside of Lovelock, Nevada, whose driver was wanted for not paying for gasoline. Unbeknownst to Trooper Borland, the suspect had just murdered two people in Texas and the vehicle was stolen. Before stopping the vehicle Trooper Borland had requested a check on the plates, but the plates had not yet been entered into NCIC. As he approached the vehicle the man pulled out a .38 caliber handgun and shot him in the head.
The suspect was apprehended later that day. He was convicted of Trooper Borland's murder and sentenced to death.
Trooper Borland had served with the agency for 1 year.
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10-20-06, 03:18 PM #18
Sorry about your loss ghost. Thoughts and prayers en routeWhat I say is my opinion, not my employers or that of my academic institution.
10-20-06, 07:36 PM #19
I am so sorry for your loss Ghost. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.Never approach a bull by the front, a horse from behind, or an idiot from any direction.
10-21-06, 12:50 AM #20
Thoughts and prayers ghostie..
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